“Lady Shara,” she says, and they touch fingertips. “I’m glad you could make it.”
More pleasantries are passed, and one by one, they approach, giving their regards. Most only touch her fingertips, the most polite greeting. A few allow her fingers to rest in their palm. The most daring give a gentle squeeze. She remembers their faces and their names, those that dare an invitation to Romance.
That crazy little thing called love.
The ven were thunderstruck by this motion of personal love; their social structure completely unequipped to handle it. In a world of arranged marriages—where the bride and groom rarely met before their wedding day—such a notion undermined the entire social order.
Imagine for a moment a world devoid of the notion of love. Not saying love didn’t exist, but our current notion of romantic love is a foreign and alien concept. Love at first sight, falling in love, flirting, dating, the first kiss—all of these notions we take for granted—simply did not exist.
For the ven, that was true. But things have changed…
As the title subtly suggests, this chapter is about romance. We’ll take a look at the history of romance (from a historical point-of-view), then discuss the current state of affairs (pun intended) in the courts of Shanri. Lastly, we’ll look at the rules of romance and how they affect your character.
Go to your bookshelf. Go pull down your favorite fantasy novel. It could be Tolkien, it could be Zelazny, it could be anything with “fantasy” on the spine.
One hundred years ago, a book like the one you’re holding wouldn’t be called a “fantasy,” it’d be called a “romance.” A work of romantic notions like heroes, heroines, acts of daring-do, swashbuckling and something called “true love.” Romantic notions. The novels of Alexandre Dumas were romances, the Arthurian myths were romances, and yes, the War of the Ring was called a “romance” in the time the Professor wrote them. Not a fantasy, but a romance.
(Technically, he called it a “history,” but we’re willing to allow the Professor a mistake or two now and then.)
And with that in mind, look through the pages of that fantasy novel of yours. Look at the passion of the characters, willing to throw their lives in the way of danger for romantic ideals. Romance can be silly, but it can also be dramatic, subtle, and even tragic. Romance can be an adventure in itself, or it can be the springboard for adventures, giving your character a reason to act as he does. Greed only carries a man so far; what happens when he collects his 100,000 gold pieces? He retires from the dangerous profession of adventuring, gets married and has a few kids, opens a blacksmithy and spends the rest of his life in relaxed luxury. But a man in love will do just about anything, even don that armor one more time, kiss his wife and children goodbye and go out into the wild world to protect everything he’s built. Love is the greatest motivator in the world, and it can provide a hero with powers he never knew he had. As we’ll see later in this chapter…
The Very First Romantics
In the minds of the ven, “love” is a dangerous thing. It makes you act against your own best interests, against your family, against your friends. It is a kind of loyalty that your superiors cannot control. Remember: the word the ven use for “love” is the same word they use for “revenge.” ˆDangerous obsession.
Likewise, romance is deadly. It’s only asking for trouble. You know how things will go when you get involved in a romance. The heat of passion makes you stupid. Makes you ill. You feel sick when your lover isn’t around and when she is around, you feel giddy. How can this be anything but dangerous?
Ven scholars denounce romance and love for these reasons. Of course, that doesn’t stop love and romance. In fact, making it forbidden just fans the flames.
Athreda and Ylvayne
Romantic notions started nearly three hundred years ago, inspired by the tales of a particular Baron and Baroness. Athreda, Baron of Tyme and Ylvayne, Baroness of Dren were drawn to each other the moment their eyes met. She was older, wife of a man falling into the deep sleep of Solace. He was a composer, looking for inspiration. They spent a winter together in the Duchy of Pathrena, and while there, they fell deeply in love.
Athreda composed his first great opera that winter, dedicating it to “My Winter Rose.” The veiled romance between the two was obvious to any who sat in attendance and it scandalized both of them. They denied any wrong-doing, the Baroness swearing everlasting loyalty to her husband, but few believed her. The way she looked at him. The way she wrote about his music. It was obvious she was deeply and passionately in love. A crime of adultery by any account.
When brought to court, she admitted her love for the young composer, but refused to admit consummating the affair. A clever move on her part, knowing that the actual crime she was accused of was adultery. The court’s judgment: “Adultery is a crime; love is not.”
Ylvayne was acquitted and half the Senate cheered. A new idea had taken root in the ven consciousness: a separation of the ideas of love and marriage.
That year, nearly three hundred volumes were published, plays were written, and operas performed, all advocating the virtues of love. Husbands were drawn as grim and dour monsters, old men marrying young women, trapping them in gilded cages. Then, along comes The Lover: young, robust, creative, and ready to save the poor, suffering wife from the trap of marriage. Of course, none of these books, plays or operas was there any sex. The law was clear: romance is legal; sex is not. But that would also change.
Return of the Winter Rose
Ten years after his first Winter Rose opera was performed, Athreda composed a sequel. The hero and heroine, both much older, reunited after many years of separation. The affair, once thought dead and forgotten, awakened once again. And this time, the lovers consummated their affair.
Once again, Athreda’s opera scandalized Shanri, but this time, it was he, not the Baroness, who was brought to trial. The crime was subverting public morals and encouraging illegal activity. The lords set to charge the case presented the opera’s libretto as evidence and the courts waited to see what defense Athreda would take. The Baron’s defense surprised the world.
He announced that he was guilty as charged. Guilty of subverting the public’s idea of marriage, guilty of encouraging love, and guilty of being helplessly in love with Ylvayne. But he refused to admit the play had anything to do with reality. “We have never consumed our love,” he confessed. “And I shall die with that shame.”
Having confessed to his crimes, he was publicly castrated, then hanged, then burned at the stake. The public was surprised that Ylvayne never attended the trial nor his execution. The day after his execution, her husband found her dead by her own hand. Poison. Legend says she left behind a letter, but that he destroyed it after reading it.
Athreda confessed his own honesty at the trial would help liberate Shanri from the prison of marriage. To a certain extend, it did. Romance has become an undeniable part of ven culture, despite those who would see it castrated, hanged, and burned as its champion was. But there is no definitive vision of love or romance. Instead, plays, books and operas continue to debate its meaning and purpose in ven life. And, of course, the ven call any such work that explores the meaning of love a vrentada. A romance.
The Courts of Love
Many of the early vrentada were expressions of romantic theories. What is love? What is the proper procedure for lovers? When has a man gone too far in expressing his love?
Almost all romances take place “once upon a time,” in a semi-fictional, semi-historical Shanri with veiled names and circumstances. Most of the time, only slightly veiled. Okay, maybe not veiled at all. Either way, these stories tell of knights wooing ladies’ hearts, their successes and failures. Some end well, but most end in tragedy—reflecting the view of this new idea. In the courts (and in the Senate) the ven openly discussed the stories, debating the nature of love and its place in the world. All the discussions were theoretical, of course—these stories were never about real people, but only fictional lords and ladies and their fictional adventures. Never did poets or playwrights use real people as models for their adventures. No, nay, never.
Every court had its own opinions, its own rules. With this attitude, romance evolved into a kind of game, with lovers finding ways of openly declaring their love in complicated codes. The courts were completely distracted by the elaborate games, trying to identify couples by their riddles.
In the beginning, these affairs were completely chaste—a kiss was a daring gift, and if discovered, could lead to banishment, or even death. Then, as the concept of courtly romance became more popular, the lady’s rewards became more… rewarding.
Eventually, romantic sentiments overcame the power of tradition, and we have the beginnings of what we have now: flirting and courtship as tests to finding your one true love. But in the world of the ven, love is still a dangerous philosophy, practiced at risk, in secret, away from the eyes of those who would ruin the greatest game ever created.
Question: “Isn’t this all adultery?”
As long as no sex is involved, the answer to that question is a definite “No.”
Well, maybe. Ah, actually, yes. Perhaps.
Years ago, the Senate passed a law that they thought would put an end to romance once and for all. It explicitly forbid any endangerment of dynastic lineage. If dynastic lineage is not endangered—in other words, as long as there’s no chance of a bastard child—most consider courtly love a harmless pastime.
There are others, however, who view such activities as spurious at least, and in extreme cases, dangerous. In the romantic ballads, the husband is often referred to as “the jealous one,” and he’s depicted as the villain, standing in the way of true love.
Romance causes men and women to doubt the authenticity and authority of their marriages, putting a dangerous strain on this all-important social contract. Defenders of romance argue love is jus as important as marriage, a vital relationship marriage can not provide. Love is choice. Marriage is force. It is a debate that continues even to this day.
The Rules of Love
In Shanri, every court views romance differently, approving of some, disapproving of others. A romance is born out of impulse, lives through the energy of immediacy, and fades when the fires burn too low. Let’s take a look at how a romance is born, lives, and eventually dies.
Beginning the Affair
It begins with a glance, a single look. If the glance lingers for more than a breath, something has happened. A chance for romance.
It is the man’s role to initiate contact, approaching with hints and signals. The woman, then, must either encourage his flirtations or discourage them, letting him know her intentions. All signs of romance must be subtle, a gesture of respect for the institution of marriage. Those who do not show such respect, flaunting their affairs, show contempt for the institution, and thus, show contempt for all married persons, as well as Manna Renay (the suaven [patron saint] of marriage).
If a woman accepts a man’s offer of romance, she determines how far the affair will go and to what degree she tests her lover’s devotion. After all, she must know his affection is true, and not just some randy brute looking for a roll between the sheets. Each test has a reward, called “merca” (pronounced “meer-sah”).
(A rough translation comes to “thank you,” although it is more delicate, more respectful. Think of someone doing you a favor that you did not ask for. Think of the way you would say the words. That’s the context.)
The degree of merca depends on the test, the lovers and the court. For some courts, an appropriate reward is a piece of clothing, a lock of hair or even a kiss on the back of the hand.
Sidebar: Seven Kisses
There are many kinds of kisses, each more intimate than the last. The courts of love determine what kisses are appropriate and which are considered “too romantic.” The first kiss is to the hand, on the fingertips. The second kiss is to the wrist; kissing the inside of the wrist is considered a more intimate reward. The third kiss is to the inside of the hand. The fourth is to the chest, just at the breast bone. The fifth kiss is to the neck, just under the chin. The sixth kiss is to the nape of the neck, just under the hairline. Finally, the last kiss is to the lips.
The delivery of each kiss is also important, and a matter for debate. Some courts insist the kiss be what is called a “quiet kiss,” delivered with closed lips. The “willing kiss” involves lips and tongue. Finally, the “cruel kiss” employs the teeth.
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And you’ll get more later.
I’m dancing as fast as I can. A little “thank you” would be appreciated. 😉